Monday, October 5, 2009

A Pastor's Love Triangle



He’s a pastor, she is married, and the man in the middle is a young, attractive, college baller with a girlfriend and lady friends’ with benefits.

Today, pastor Robert Reaves is facing first-degree murder of 21 yr old married female Latrease Curtis (fatal stabbing her 40 times) because the victim was an obstacle to his sexual advances and obsession with his male college basketball player roommate: Steven Randolph.

According to Steven’s testimony, the story goes like this: Pastor Reaves befriends college baller Steven and due to the college students financial challenges became pastor Reeves roommate. Later, Steven’s became pastor Reaves “assistant”/intern/mentee (Steven states assistant). The evening Steven and Latrease had sex, pastor propositioned Steven about escort service employment which lead to pastor Reeves asking to see and measure Steven’s penis. Steven’s states that while pastor sat on a couch he pulled down his pants and revealed his penis to pastor; pastor measured his penis and and physically examined his penis with his hand(s). Afterwards, pastor instructed Steven to “go clean up”. Steven refer pastor’s command was for him to clean off the “stuff” left over from sex with Latrease earlier.

After viewing Steven’s testify on Thursday, I’m convinced that Steven allowed pastor to perform oral sex, more than once, on him for financial benefit which sent pastor Reaves into an obsessed killer. If pastor takes the stand, which I doubt, I’d love to hear his side of the story.

I’ve echoed repeatedly what sex therapist know as fact: most clients’ sexual challenges stem from religion. Too often pastors will go to great length to mask and hide there sexual desire(s) because they have been taught that such acts or behavior is considered sinful or unchristian like; therefore these ministers hide, creep, and on the down low, because they are terrified of social stigma, and intrapersonally tormented. There are too many examples of anti-gay pastor hyprocrites’ to list.

Here a pastor fatally stabs a female over 40 times because she had sex with the man the pastor clearly desired or had sex with too. This story is so sad! So many ministers allow their religious conviction to halt their sexual orientation and sexual proclivities. The victim could be alive and the defendant could be at home preparing his next anti-gay sermon – only if he knew that the same God he worship deeply love those he created who love someone of the same sex.

You can view non-bias reporting at Pam’s Houseblend and Rod’s2.0

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