Don’t let embarrassment become a health risk. Talk with your sex partner about condoms? Avert has listed some great excuses and good answers:
EXCUSE: Don’t you trust me?
ANSWER: Trust isn’t the point, people can have infections without realising it.
EXCUSE: It does not feel as good with a condom
ANSWER: I’ll feel more relaxed, If I am more relaxed, I can make it feel better for you.
EXCUSE: I don’t have a condom with me
ANSWER: I do
EXCUSE: I don’t stay hard when I put on a condom
ANSWER: I’ll help you put it on, that will help you keep it hard.
EXCUSE: I am afraid to ask him to use a condom. He’ll think I don’t trust him.
ANSWER: If you can’t ask him, you probably don’t trust him.
EXCUSE: I can’t feel a thing when I wear a condom
ANSWER: Maybe that way you’ll last even longer and that will make up for it
EXCUSE: I don’t stay hard when I put on a condom
ANSWER: I’ll help you put it on, that will help you keep it
EXCUSE: It’s up to him… it’s his decision
ANSWER: It’s your health. It should be your decision too!
EXCUSE: I’m on the pill, you don’t need a condom
ANSWER: I’d like to use it anyway. It will help to protect us from infections we may not realise we have.
ANSWER: It just isn’t as sensitive and I can’t feel a thing ANSWER: Maybe that way you will last even longer and that will make up for it
EXCUSE: Putting it on interrupts everything
ANSWER: Not if I help put it on
EXCUSE: I guess you don’t really love me
ANSWER: I do, but I am not risking my future to prove it
EXCUSE: I will pull out in time
ANSWER: Women can get pregnant and get STDs from pre-ejaculate
EXCUSE: But I love you
ANSWER: Then you’ll help us to protect ourselves.
EXCUSE: Just this once
ANSWER: Once is all it takes
There are many reasons to use condoms when having sex. You could go through these reasons with your partner and see what she/he thinks.
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